4.10.2007

Five Nights Stand


;-)

I may think I know the whole concept about one nightstand, but apparently according to one fellow friend, I have no idea. People tend to think one nightstand is playing sex with one stranger individual just for one night, that’s why the phrase is commonly and bluntly used in a chatting district. To him, yes, the basic idea about one night stand is to have sex just for one night, but he also think that the idea is about 2 person having a great one happy night with just talk and do stuff that’s fun (I’m not really sure that is what people ‘in this country’ were assuming of one night stand, then again, I’m not that out of a person, but I kinda like the idea).

It is actually nice if there’s this kind of whole new concept for two people just having laughs all day all night (not too obvious called dating), no no, actually similar to dating but we take it to the next level, it’s more like we feel like we already knew each other for 1 year although essentially we just met (how crazy and fabulous is that!). And of course human being equal never satisfied, it seems like they don’t want to let go cause it’s so much fun, no boundaries, no maintaining self-image, and all crazy things you’d do to your friends you know for quiet long enough you feel comfort around them (but this time you do it to your so-called partner). Then comes this idea of how about make it 5 times, five nights stand! Then I asked, why 5 times? Why not 3 or 4 or 10? Apparently he only has five days free (why? it’s confidential), why not make the utmost of the free days? (Good point!)

And this is only for a couple that stupidly think they will never be together for the reason of differences such as, families, financials, religions, cultures, looks, and so many other stuff that one person think his/her partner can’t tolerate, but you can’t deny that the two of u had a very nice evening together (you know how hard it is to find someone who understand what you’re talking about and debate about all unnecessarily things that become necessary in an uncomfortable silences)

I say, if it’s fun and nice and you both like each other very very very much (unless if u think u like him/her, when inside you actually only like the rush), go for it! Not just for 5 days, be together, be a lover! (What am I talking about?!?! Even now I’m still confused about this particular problem and I gave advices to people, what a nasty little liar!). But I think its true, life’s too short, stop thinking too pessimistic, and enjoy life! Cause u never knows what’ll happen next when u stop now, it could be bad, but it also could be beautiful. Take that chances, anyway it’s only 50/50.

Lots of love!

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