siblings nite out

I have a thought… if relationships are hard, why bother having one? But then… I have another thought; it’s harder to be alone. Unavoidable word for all singles out there. It’s true, god did made humans meant to be paired.

This sort of rush feelings that we usually get on our first date, well I gotta say, that’s the best! New feelings that are about to bound together as one, the rush of talking about the futures ahead together as a couple. Getting to know each other, the missing and everything… the things we only get on the pre-relationship we mostly missed after relationship runs in quiet a while. Come to think about it, maybe that’s the reason why back then all my relationships was so…. Dry. Though, I’m sure out there, there’s someone who can always make me feel like on the first date even though it’s our 5th anniversary. And in return, I will make sure that I’m the best that one person ever gotten a.k.a heaven on earth!

When I’m feeling happy and positive about my single relationship with myself, both my sisters were having problem with theirs. Fights really indeed common in relationships. Some were made-fights to spice up the connection, some were just stupid fights over stupid little things, some were real fights that was led by all those stupid little fights… and when it happened, it’s as if a cue for clubbing night and dance our ass off!

2 years of relationships, I say quiet a long period of togetherness. Way passed the getting-to-know-each-others-ugly-side. Maybe a time for sacrificing ones habit for the other one after the proposal handed over. We all knew it was not her time to change when he, forcibly, asked her. And she was all ‘why can’t he accept me for who I am? I can’t wear this and that, I can’t even use this ribbon!’ (And showing her rather childish ribbon and hey, non problemo). She drank much that night and still she was feeling rather blue and not in the mood. Then, around 3, he showed up putting his ego down… and yes, she’s back on track!

7 years, 2 babies popped, and too many dramas later, through all the unnecessary fights and the last fight just before we went out to drunk our asses off, they’re still care for each other. The sweetest thing happened on the dance floor, while dancing with me, she called him and said that she loves him and he said he love her too always, with upbeat love song in the air (and might I add, lots of smoke filled the air too!) hung up the phone she hugged me crying. It was 2 am, feeling better after the call she just made we danced until 7 am.

Have fun sisters?

Lots of Love!