(Top) (Bot)

( @ me room again! gosh! )

What’s the difference between top and bottom?
For one thing, top is someone who’s putting ‘it’ inside, and bottom is someone who, well, provide ‘something’ to put ‘it’ if u know what I’m talking about

Top is the person who’s in control and bottom is controlled, but these days bottom just making their way up and control. Have you ever heard of ‘women on top’? That’s the situation where bottom is ‘in’ control. Trust me, and trust the survey, men likes it, let’s face it, men’s too lazy to be on top all the time.

Gay society on the other side, slightly same with heterosexual, only, they can work both ways, top could be bot (bottom) and bot could be top, they called it versatile.

But some folks, just capable enough with only one side. Bottom could only perform well being bottom, meaning can’t get it up when forced being top. And the other way around with top.

Enough with these theories lets head to the problem (which not really is a problem)

Since when being bottom in gay society is consider as the bottom-of-the-barrels in the caste of life? People may don’t really think of it much and don’t really realize this, but if u think about it (not worth thinking by the way) being bottom is being the object (literally in sexual vicinity) and top is on ‘top’ of the world.

And more fascinatingly, they agree! By placing bottom as the curse of the cursed. We still haven’t figured it out yet. But one theory caught my attention says (another one! We’re saying men to men gay here) perhaps because men are meant to be men, and being bottom meaning leaning a bit towards the female area so they’re (‘top’ guys) terrified to enter that area. And so, they seem to mock the bottom ones (they need them for Christ sake! I don’t see the point).

One case I’ve experienced, I have this friends (let’s say he’s jack) who’s versatile, he has this so-called life partner (mike) which is top. In trading-news time (always happen at coffee shops), me, another friend (john) and jack were sipping coffee when suddenly john says “you know, mike’s a bottom!” with his keen face waiting for jack’s respond. Was he seriously saying that? So what if mike’s bottom? is that even really a problem? Jack’s a pure versatile anyway! (unless if jack’s a bot, that would be a problem alright! But still not appropriate gossiping about)

It wouldn’t be such a big problem for female to female gay couple, they don't have this urge to be in control, female just like it to be controlled it’s natural, and female who’s leaning a bit towards male would of course love to control. And beside, they don't have this wee-wee malfunction in bed, they always have dildos!

What I’m trying to say here is, I love to make blog and illustrate my thoughts, and I have these thoughts so I write it. What?!
Read it just for fun and if u doesn’t have anything to do! Better yet, don't read it!

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